A good question. If you can let it all go, and be only concerned about the choices you make in life you will be invincible. Most of us live an existence being swept about by the circumstances we find ourselves in day after day. We are like a boat lost at sea without a sail, drifting along in any direction that the waves of life occur.
You by choice will not be so easily cast about when you start owning your choices. Is this acceptance or is a conscious decision? Maybe it’s a little of both.